Sorry if this is already discussed, I did a quick search and didn't find what I was looking for.... I am about to upgrade from 3Gs to 4s. I do not in any way like the idea of iCloud. I like wireless update (as long as it isn't forced) and wireless sync, but no iCloud. My data is on my computer and backed up by me and that is all I need. I am a real privacy nut and the idea that "for my convenience" anything I purchase is automatically downloaded to all devices and all my tunes are copied to their cloud makes me mental. Why would I have multiple devices if they are all copies of each other? When I buy an app, it is for that phone only, not my wife's phone, etc. If she decides she wants it, I am capable of syncing it myself..... So, quick question, is there any way to not have iCloud or the idea of all devices automatically copying what I purchase to all phones? What if I purchase an illicit song, now it's also on my kids phone? That is nuts! Also, I am going Sprint, and from what I hear, the GSM sim slot will be unlocked "but locked at a future date from an update pushed to the phone". Damn, if it is forced updates wireless, how can I avoid it? I don't care about the sim slot, but the idea of a push update beyond my control is a bit too much. Can't we stop it???? Thanks in advance for any help. I should have my phone within a couple of weeks and would love to have all settings to stop this set long before I make my first call.