Grr. manually manage music= music not being in sync with iTunes library (I'm lazy and add music/lyrics to my ipod but not my library. When I update my firmware, it deletes songs and I have to resync or SSH beforehand, ergo annoying.) syncing= not being able to add music from other computers and random music deletion (Basically, when the links to my music on my computer die and I move them from my folders, some songs get synced but not others. iTunes doesn't even tell me it's deleting songs! Also other songs are apparently 'unplayable' on my iPod when it's already on there, so syncing only results in deleted music!) So is there an alternative?